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Sexual Dysfunctions

Sexual health is a state of physical, emotional, mental, and social well-being; it is not merely the absence of disease or dysfunction. My practice is built on bridging the gap between physical symptoms and the emotional experience.

Understanding the Threshold of Dysfunction

In clinical sexology, for a concern to be formally diagnosed as a sexual dysfunction, it typically needs to meet specific criteria regarding duration (often six months or more), frequency, and—most importantly—significant personal or relational distress.

However, sexual health exists on a spectrum. You do not need to meet a formal diagnostic threshold for your experiences to be "valid" or for your suffering to be addressed. Whether you are experiencing a persistent clinical disorder or a temporary "rough patch" in your intimacy, my role is to help you:

  • Determine the difference:

       We clarify whether you are facing a physiological problem, a psychological block, a natural response to life stressors or a 

       combination of factors.

  • Bridge Medical & Physical Care:

       I provide the psychosomatic support that runs alongside medical and physiotherapy interventions, ensuring your mind is as       

       prepared for healing as your body.

  • Empowerment through Management:

       I equip you with the tools to manage symptoms and overcome challenges, moving you from a state of distress to one of agency 

       and pleasure.

My Scope of Practice Includes:

  • Desire & Arousal:

       inhibited libido, erectile challenges and lubrication difficulties.

  • Orgasm & Resolution:

       anorgasmia, early ejaculation, hypersensitivity

  • Pain Management: 

       vaginismus and dyspareunia.

  • Adaptive Intimacy:

       differently-abled bodies, chronic illness, injury

  • Trauma & Regulation:

       sexual, medical, physical, emotional trauma, stress, performance anxiety, fear, guilt, shame

As an inclusive and collaborative professional, I work in tandem with your healthcare team. Whether you are seeing a physiotherapist for pelvic floor work or a doctor for hormonal support, I provide specialised, evidence-based care needed to align your mental state with your physical recovery.

Combining sensate focus touch, TRE, and counselling, your healing is not just a medical or physical process, but an experience of empowerment.

© Made with compassionate intention Shay Rees-Davies 2020

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