Counselling Sexologist & TRE Provider
SHAY REES-DAVIES
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Climacteric
Climacteric is a natural and inevitable transitional period in a person's life when their reproductive ability declines. While it is most commonly associated with menopause in women, it's a broader term that encompasses the entire process of biological and emotional change in all genders. This can be a challenging time, not only due to physical symptoms but also because of the emotional and relationship problems that often come with these major life transitions.
Understanding Climacteric
Climacteric in women is often a prolonged process that includes three main stages:
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Perimenopause: The years leading up to menopause, characterized by fluctuating hormones, irregular periods, and the onset of symptoms like hot flashes and mood swings.
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Menopause: A single point in time, defined as 12 consecutive months without a menstrual period, marking the permanent end of menstruation and fertility.
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Postmenopause: The years following menopause, where many acute symptoms subside, but long-term hormonal changes remain.
Climacteric in men, sometimes called andropause, involves a more gradual decline in testosterone. This can lead to symptoms such as reduced sex drive, erectile dysfunction, fatigue, and mood changes. While men do not experience the loss of fertility in the same way women do, understanding these changes in both partners is crucial for mutual support.
As a professional, as well as a woman going through perimenopause, my primary goal is to help you and your partner navigate the psychological, emotional, and physical changes that impact your sexuality and relationship.
For individuals and couples experiencing these changes, I can help you:
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Address Psychological and Emotional Impact:
The transition can trigger feelings of anxiety, grief, and a sense of loss. We will work together to process these emotions, helping you understand that what you're feeling is normal and valid. This helps to reduce the shame and isolation that often come with this transition.
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Rebuild Body Image and Self-Esteem:
Physical changes can significantly impact how you view yourself and your body. I provide a supportive space to help you redefine your relationship with your body, so you can rebuild your confidence and embrace this new phase of life.
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Improve Communication and Intimacy:
Changes in desire, arousal, and physical comfort can create a rift between partners. We will work on communication skills to help you discuss these sensitive topics openly and honestly. This allows you to explore new ways to connect and redefine intimacy, shifting the focus from performance to mutual pleasure and emotional connection.
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Provide Practical, Non-Medical Strategies:
I offer education to normalize symptoms like decreased libido, vaginal dryness, or erectile dysfunction. I can also provide practical recommendations for managing physical discomfort, such as suggesting lubricants, new approaches to foreplay, or alternative forms of sexual expression.
My approach is to empower you to see this transition not as an ending, but as an opportunity for a deeper, more connected, and more fulfilling intimate life.