Counselling Sexologist & TRE Provider
SHAY REES-DAVIES
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Developmental Sexology
Developmental sexology is important because it provides a framework for understanding how human sexuality evolves and changes throughout a person's entire lifespan. It helps explain how biological, psychological, and social factors interact at different life stages, from childhood to old age, to shape an individual's sexual identity, behaviors, and relationships.
By highlighting the diverse ways sexuality can unfold, developmental sexology challenges the idea that there is a single, "normal" path for sexual development. It acknowledges that individuals may experience changes in their sexual identity, attractions, and behaviors throughout their lives, and that these shifts are a natural part of human experience.
A crucial aspect of this work is recognizing the risks of not providing proper sex education. Without accurate, age-appropriate information from a trusted source, children and adolescents will inevitably seek out answers from potentially unreliable and dangerous online sources. The internet is filled with misinformation, explicit content, and harmful portrayals of sexuality that can lead to confusion, distorted views of relationships, and a lack of understanding about personal safety and boundaries. This is especially true for crucial topics like sexual consent and coercion.
For parents and caregivers, understanding developmental sexology is key. It helps you recognize that your own sexual development has shaped who you are today and that you are an invaluable resource for your children. By engaging in open and honest conversations, you can provide them with a safe foundation of knowledge. This not only protects them from misinformation but also empowers them to form healthy relationships, understand their bodies, and advocate for their own well-being as they grow.
Developmental Sexology also helps people to understand and navigate the significant physical and emotional changes that occur during life stages like puberty and climacteric (perimenopause and menopause)