Human Sexuality & Relationship Specialist
Shay Rees-Davies
INDIVIDUAL THERAPY
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Individual therapy offers a unique opportunity, not only to address specific issues you may be facing. but also for self-discovery. Think of it as an adventure into all the parts of yourself that make you whole. In a safe and supportive space, we'll explore these parts together, fostering healing, growth, and a deeper sense of self-awareness.
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Individual therapy can help with:
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Self-Regulation
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Enhanced Decision Making
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Increased self-confidence
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Improving communication skills
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Releasing creative 'blocks'
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Reducing the impact of stress
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Transmuting trauma and enhancing post-traumatic growth
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Nuturing the connection between mind, body and beyond.
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Your specific needs, determine the process. All consultations are considered within the context of your lived experience. There is no "one size fits all".
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RELATIONSHIP THERAPY
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Relationship therapy supports a wide range of dynamics and situations, considering both external influences and the internal experiences of all partners involved. Investing in your relationship is an investment in your future. Whether you're married, dating, exploring, experimenting, or somewhere in between, therapy can provide valuable tools for navigating challenges and building stronger connections.​
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Relationship Therapy can help with:
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Improving communication
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Enhanced understanding of eachother
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Conflict Resolution
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Increased sexual, romantic, emotional, physical, spiritual, social and financial intimacy.
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Healing from infedelity
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Navigating life transitions (job loss, injury, illness, grief, birth of a child etc)
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Goal Setting​
Relationship therapy can also help with amicable seperation. ​
MINDBODY PRACTICES
The mind and body are two of our most prescious tools, and they are inextricably linked. Modern society often pulls us into the labyrinth of the mind, and societal expectations can make us feel like our bodies are either "too this" or "too thatt" - but never enough. This disconnects us from the body's inherent wisdom and the vital conversation between the Self and the tools of Self.
I offer the following practices to help you rediscover your inner landscape and nurture your own self-guided exploration, whether as part of your therapeutic journey or as an independant path of self-discovery:
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Trauma & Tension Release Exercises (TRE)
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Meditation
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Pranayama (Breathwork)
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Yoga Asana (Movement/Exercise)
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Introspective art & journalling journey using Patanjali's 8 Limbs of Yoga
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The mind-body connection is a lifelong journey that involves paying attention to our thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations. It's about recognizing the interplay between these aspects of ourselves and making choices that support our holistic well-being


EDUCATION & SAFEGUARDING
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Every human has the right to access unbiased, scientifically grounded education and healthcare starting with age-appropriate education.
I offer group workshops to equip parents, teachers, and community members with the knowledge and tools to support healthy development and prevent harm. Topics include:
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Healthy childhood & adolescent sexual development
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Online safety
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Navigating conversations about sex, porn, consent & coersion, and contraception
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Building healthy relationships
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Recognizing and responding to suspected child abuse
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Nurturing self-esteem and self-confidence as a protective factor against sexual abuse and exploitation
In collaboration with the Jasriel Foundation, I extend my reach by training and implementing safeguarding policies in schools and sports clubs, contributing to both proactive and reactive measures to address child sexual abuse.
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FORENSIC SEXOLOGY
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Forensic sexology is a specialized field that combines the study of human sexuality (sexology) with legal and forensic principles. It explores the intersection of sexology and the law, examining sexual beleifs and behavior in legal contexts. ​This is a developing section of my practice.
I currently offer forensic reporting for claimants who have suffered spinal cord injuries as a result of accident or malpractice.
I am also engaged in research, under the mentorship of Professor Johann Lemmer, focusing on sexual violence within the South African legal system. With focus on offender characteristics, victim impact, and prevention strategies. This research is contributing to my growing expertise in sexual offenders recidivism risk assessment. Furthermore, I'm committed to challenging harmful myths about sexual behavior and advocating for victim-sensitive legal procedures that prevent re-traumatization, striving for a more informed and just legal system.
